Learning One Another

Learning One Another

From Wayne’s Journal

This week, Charlie and I were introduced to some new skills in our service dog training: Touch and Center Sit. Along with these new commands, we also focused on improving our proficiency with the skills Charlie already knows. It’s not just about him executing the commands — it’s about me learning to give them more clearly and effectively, and consistently rewarding his positive responses.

I’ve quickly discovered that Charlie can be… let’s just say, a bit obstinate at times. (Ha ha). When he gets distracted or stubborn, I’ve had to get creative to keep him focused and responsive. Sometimes, it’s as simple as changing the inflection of my voice or giving him a gentle reminder that I’m present and engaged. These small adjustments make each training session an interesting challenge.

Thankfully, Charlie is highly motivated by treats — he doesn’t discriminate against any kind. As Julie pointed out, the combination of the clicker and a handful of tasty rewards is the best way to capture and hold his attention. With this incentive, we’ve really started to excel at Center Sit (where Charlie sits between my legs) and are making great progress with Touch — as long as Charlie stays focused.

At home, our schnauzer, Boo, has decided that she wants in on the action. Whenever Charlie gets a treat during training, Boo expects one too. The two of them have become fast friends, spending hours playing together. It’s pretty amusing watching little Boo boss around big ol’ Charlie. Despite his size, Charlie is such a gentle giant, and I can tell he enjoys the playful attention she gives him. What’s truly heartwarming is how far Boo has come — she used to be terrified of large dogs. Now, she’s initiating playtime or simply curling up next to Charlie for a nap. Seeing their bond grow has been an unexpected but beautiful bonus of this journey.

On a personal note, Charlie and I practice our skills every day. I know we’re making progress, but there are moments when I can’t help but feel a little anxious. When things don’t go as planned, I catch myself thinking, Charlie knows what to do — so it must be me making the mistake. I sometimes worry that I’m not giving the commands correctly or with the right timing. Even though I know that with practice, patience, and the support of my incredible training family, we’ll get there, the feeling of being overwhelmed still creeps in from time to time.

But despite those fleeting doubts, I continue to see the numerous successes Charlie and I have achieved over the past few weeks. His steady presence and unwavering companionship remind me that every step forward — no matter how small — is worth celebrating. I am committed to KFGing (Keep Freaking Going!) and improving my quality of life alongside my amazing partner, Charlie.

I’m already looking forward to Monday’s training session — another chance for us to grow, learn, and strengthen the bond that keeps getting better with each passing day.